Writing an Obituary and Eulogy
Few things feel as daunting as summing up a whole life on paper. But an obituary and a eulogy aren't tests — they're love letters. Here's a simple way to approach both, and remember: our staff helps families write and publish obituaries every day.
Start by Gathering Their Story
Before you write a word, sit with family and collect the raw material: dates and places, work and church life, and — most importantly — the stories. What did they always say? What will everyone remember? The details that make people laugh and nod are the ones worth keeping.
Writing the Obituary
A good obituary covers the essentials — full name, age, dates, surviving family, and service details — then adds a few lines that sound like them: their passions, their faith, their pride and joy. Keep it warm and true. We'll review it with you, publish it on our website, and place it in newspapers if you wish.
Delivering the Eulogy
Aim for three to five minutes built around two or three stories rather than a full biography. Write it out, practice aloud, and bring a printed copy — emotion is expected, and pausing is fine. If you're worried you can't finish, ask someone to stand ready as backup. The room is full of love, not judgment.
